[:en]Once the congratulatory handshakes and pats on the back subside, you’ll probably find that you are no longer in the limelight. Just like an ageing actor past his prime, you’ll find yourself relegated to the sidelines. Don’t take this personally. When it comes to men and pregnancy, there is only so much that you can do. The expectant mother becomes the focus of attention. She is the star of the show. After all, she’s the one carrying the baby. She’s the one who will be getting all out of shape for the next nine months or so. She’s the one who has to put up with all the nausea, discomfort and crazy cravings in the middle of the night… you get the picture. So it’s only natural that as the father, you feel that you are being ignored.[:zh]在最初的兴奋消退过后，您可能会发现自己不再是关注的焦点。就像是一个已经过了巅峰期的老演员，您会发现自己降级成了配角。不用太过在意。在准爸爸和怀孕的妻子之间，准妈妈自然会成为人们关注的焦点，这个时期的主角。[:]